Saturday 2 November 2013

8 SIGNS SHE WANTS YOU TO BREAK UP WITH HER


Not every girl has the balls to break up with her man, so she resorts to different means just to push him to dump her....atleast that way she can console herself by thinking she spared his feelings and didn't break his heart.
The following are ways she is likely to behave just to get you off her back ;
1. PICKS UP QUARRELS INCESSANTLY: By this time, the smallest of issues that were never noticeable become huge topics of discussion. Everything little detail becomes something to bicker about. Communication slowly becomes such an up-hill task
2. DOESN'T CALL, TEXT OR PING as much even when she says she will. She avoids your calls and reluctantly responds to your messages. She always seems so cold when you call and you basically have to do all the gist initiations.
3. DEVELOPS A BITCHY, SNAPPY ATTITUDE AND DISRESPECTS YOU  PUBLICLY: She could display this in many ways, like messing around with other guys right before you, dismisses your opinion about an issue abruptly and rudely in the midst of her friends, or snaps at you because you forgot to send her #100 recharge card. For some guys, this tends to lower their self esteem, but its nothing to kill ones self over, shes just isn't interested anymore.   
4. HAS NO REGARD FOR YOUR OPINION: Doesn't come to you first or ask your opinion when she has got a problem, gets advice from someone else and goes with what they say.
5. SEX, KISSING, CUDDLING (if any) IS NOT THE SAME: It becomes more of a forced duty rather than a physical display of emotions. Infact, in very bad scenarios, she doesn't want anything close to physical affection between you two (you may have begun to irritate her already).
6. DOESN'T CARE ANYMORE: Unlike before, your problems are no longer her problems and it really doesn't matter to her what you do with your life anymore, as far as it doesn't directly affect her.
7. SHOWS NO REMORSE: As far as shes concerned, that you get seek explanations 'just' because she doesn't call, doesn't want your opinion, or doesn't want to have any form of intimacy with you, only means that you are being too sensitive because she doesn't see anything wrong with what she does (or atleast, thats the impression she creates).  
8. THE FEELING IS NOT JUST RIGHT: To me,this is the ultimate indicator. Because of her significant attitude change, you will definitely get the feeling, it just wont feel right. Even when you guys are so close, you still feel very distant.

*By the way, this is just my analysis. Have you been a victim of this type of treatment? or you have done this before and there are some signs you think i haven't included, feel free to share via your comments below.

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  1. Please for all those that commented here yesterday (Emmanuel, wermy, Gbizzle, etc) and haven't been able to visualize them, my sincere apologies. Experienced some technical difficulties while trying to make a few adjustments to make commenting easier for you all. Please bear with me.

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