I was listening to the radio yesterday and a panel of 3 guys
and 3 girls were dissecting the issue of keeping secrets in relationships. Apparently
there are three types of secrets, the one that you did, the one you are
doing and the one will do. The bone
of contention was
1.
Should there be secrets in relationships?
2.
Who keeps secrets more in relationships, men or
women?
3.
Which of the three types of secrets is best to
divulge?
I personally think some things should be kept from the other
person until after a particular stage in the relationship when it is mature
enough to tolerate the mistakes of the past. Early on in the relationship is
never adviceable as the proper foundation has not been laid to cushion the
effects of any ugly past.
As for who keeps secrets more? Men definitely do and they
know it. Women put it all out there for the world to see and judge. And of the
three types of secrets, if you must say anything, then say everything. There’s
nothing new under this sun, even 11 year olds have seen it all these days. No need
to say some and leave out the rest.
So, what do you think
about this? Do secrets create more harm than good?
Hahaha. The one you hv done, are doing nd will do. Whoever came up with this? Anyway women keep secrets more. Infact i can write a book about this, the men don't even come close. Chai!! If i share my personal experience eh...u people will weep for me. #Wright.
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