Very few things are as liberating as finding out that the
reason why your spouse or partner has been treating you differently in recent
times is not because you have changed or because you’re no longer good enough,
it’s because he has found another damsel that he seems to cherish more now. After
the liberating feeling comes the feeling of anger, rage and betrayal. It is
this feeling that prompts us to call the other woman. But is this really
adviceable? Can any good come of it?
Nothing good can
come of it. There are so many reasons why you shouldn’t even consider it.
-if she knowledgeably dated a hooked man, then you don’t really
expect any form of remorse from her and she’s definitely not scared of you so
your threats and trying to make her feel guilty don’t count.
-If she dated him without knowing he’s hooked then you can’t
blame her. Why should you? Afterall you believed him when he said he would
never be unfaithful to you.
-if you confront both of them and he takes her side over
yours, it’s going to hurt deeper than ever and you get to loose on both sides, embarrassing
yourself and still losing your man.
-He’s the one playing games with your feelings, so all your
rage should be directed to him. If he can’t offer a reasonable explanation, be
remorseful and actually stop, then he doesn’t deserve you. There are no two
ways about it, take a walk.
* have you been
cheated on?
*do you think calling
the other woman ever helps?
I'm a guy and i'm sure this also applies to guys. i have been cheated on, but what will i even be calling the guy for, if i even try it the guy is dead. Ladies should own up to cheating when they do it, some of us can handle it contrary to what they think.
ReplyDeletecalling the other woman helps to a good extent. i have been there before and i scared the hell outta her. she called it off with him and he had to come running back. it depends on the cheatee sha, some of them no get mind
ReplyDeleteah! my pride won't even let me call the other lady. small things like this embarass me alot and like you said, if he choses her over me in public, i'll just kill my self. can't take some things, will just quietly leave.
ReplyDeleteah! little things like this embarass me alot and like you said, if he picks her over me in public, i'll just kill myself. cant take it,will just quietly leave.
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