3 Sure Ways To Spot A Disrespectful Woman

This is for the benefit of all those guys who are so blinded by their so-called love for their sweethearts that they can hardly realize it when things are getting out of hand and the tables have turned. It’s crazy to hold onto a relationship where you’re neither valued nor regarded. The unhappiness you live with is unfathomable and it never ends up well except some miraculous transformation ensues to bring back the angel you fell in love with. Otherwise, if you spot these three signs, then you don’t need further proof. You need to have a talk with her.

1.Insults

Playful comments that may not necessarily portray you in a good light are acceptable. But there’s a fine line between playful petty insults and the real deal- malicious insults. At this point, there’s little or no regard for your feelings and how this might twist your day in the wrong direction. “Baby I’m leaving for work, hope you won’t forget to get the clothes from the dry-cleaner”, “what kind of stupid question is that, thought I made it clear that I’ll be there.” Now, she may not have called you names but that’s an insult nonetheless and it only means she thinks you’re stupid enough to only say useless things.

2. Public Humiliation

There are a trillion ways to get humiliated in public by your girl. Either she’s always correcting your grammar or eating habit in the midst of people, or you accompany her to an occasion and in reply to a simple question you asked, she raises her voice (in such a way that everyone stops to stare) and walks out on you. She could even publicly humiliate you when in a gathering of friends she cuts you off midway during conversations and says something like “your ideas are always terrible, please don’t make comments when we’re outside” and looks away from you like she didn’t just throw a bomb your way. If she always shoots down your opinions, comments, suggestions and puts hers above yours not only at home but also for the world to see, then what other sign do you need to help you describe who you’re dealing with? Well, maybe No 3.

3. Bad-mouthing behind your back

It gets to a point where she no longer defends you and what you stand for, but rather joins in with the crowed to diss and ridicule you. “My man is so broke, he can’t even afford the baby’s milk”. You have a leaf stuck in your teeth and rather than point it out to you, she joins in with her friend to laugh at you. Her friends and family are allowed to say whatever they please about your sorry ass and she couldn’t be bothered. Now, because this is bad-mouthing “behind your back” it might take a while before you uncover this. Keep your ears to the ground, the moment you start hearing shit about you that only both of you knew about, then that’s your cue. You don’t need an angel to tell you the source of that information.

What I think: if you’ve thoroughly searched yourself and realized that you haven’t done anything to warrant this type of disrespect, then an alarm has been set off, re-trace your steps. If however, you happen to have provoked her into disrespecting you, then atleast No 1 is a well deserved treatment.

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