Wednesday 5 February 2014

7 Reasons Why Men find Older Women Attractive

Today, men are becoming more open minded to pursuing an older woman for all the right reasons (i want to believe that). Even though we all look at these relationships skeptically, we shouldn't act so surprised.
Older women have many admirable traits to offer a man who may be seeking a mature, experienced partner rather than an immature younger woman.


1. Confidence

                    Older women know themselves better than anybody, which helps them exude confidence. Having that poise, assurance, and certainty is extremely sexy and attractive! Men adore a confident woman who has her own routine, and isn't afraid to be herself around others. This sexy assertiveness is why men find older women attractive. It is so much easier to spend time with a woman who is less demanding, more relaxed, and has a good attitude about life. With confidence comes less drama and more fun.


2. Responsible
  An older woman is most likely a hard worker that has built a foundation for herself. Older woman tend to be more clear and focused and know exactly what they want. She can help guide and teach a man the ways of life and build up his drive, confidence, and self-esteem. The life experiences she has been through can also help a man stay grounded and realistic


3. Independent
 Typically, most older women are perfectly happy with no strings attached. She does not need a man in her life to make her content. She won’t be clingy or needy and she can pay for her own dinner and drinks. Trying to play that hard to get game with your man? Think again! Older women won’t play games because they know exactly what they want. Emotional and financial independence is a huge turn on for a man.

4. Honesty
  There is a level of honesty and trust that an older woman has learned to apply to her partners. Respect is very important in all areas of dating and relationships. An older woman has mastered this life skill and wants honesty, trust, and respect in return. She is not going to be impressed if the man is still trying to figure out how to juggle multiple dates, or come up with excuses about other women is his life.

5. Experience
An older woman have been though more life experiences and more relationships. She knows the trials and tribulations of it all and is more mild mannered about relationship drama. Older women know how they want to be treated, so there aren't any mixed signals. An older woman is also more emotionally stable and is seeking a true connection with her man. She can also help the man learn more about himself and his emotions to ultimately be a better person, a best friend, and a long lasting partner.

6. Conversation
Once the initial attraction spark has faded, conversation is of utmost importance. Having meaningful conversations is refreshing and engaging especially if the woman has life experiences to share. Conversation doesn't stop at just life stories; learning and growing from each other through communication is what we all strive for in a partner. A man will appreciate an older woman who can bring more to the table than just sex and good looks.

7. Sex
Older women definitely have more experience in the bedroom and she isn't afraid to tell her man exactly what she wants. She is over all of the insecurities and worries that can trouble a superior sex life. This open honesty and trust can lead to greater satisfaction for both partners. When we can satisfy someone sexually, not only does it feel incredible, but it also increases confidence and intimacy. Having the skills to please a man is another major reason why men are so attracted to older women. An older woman can be more playful, adventurous, giving, and entirely devoted to her man in bed.


All of these characteristics that an older woman possesses can lead to a deeper connection with her man. Now it’s up to all the men and immature young ladies out there to be open minded and willing to learn from a sexy, confident, and independent women. 

Are there any other reasons you can think of about why men find older women attractive?

Or you're of the opinion that dating an older lady is a taboo? if so, why?

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2 comments:

  1. when u talk about older men and women they are fun but should not be married. The single older companion soothes perfectly i agree and displays all attributes so mentioned but if married it becomes complicated

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  2. How complicated can it be. Even if complications arise, if mature minds are involved, it won't be on d basis of age..maybe something else entirely

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