Flirting in practical terms is when
George gives Lisa the impression via verbal, written, or body language that he
wants to be with her on an emotional/intimate level when in fact, he doesn’t
really want to. Or It could be the other way round, where Lisa gives the
suggestive signals. Cheating on the
other hand, is performing any type of intimate act with anyone other than your
significant other.
The act of Flirting is very common in
our society and happens to be a very subjective issue as most people express
different opinions about the intent behind it. Some may say it’s a way to gain
an advantage in an area of life, some may say its harmless and simply a way to
have fun, while others may say its plainly a consequence of boredom with no
strings attached. Even with all these “seemingly harmless” opinions, there’s
still this sting of betrayal that accompanies the “act” in a relationship
setting.
A boyfriend who finds exchange of romantic
texts or voice notes between his girlfriend and another guy flips out instantly
and always feels betrayed and cheated on, even when she claims to just be
flirting in her defense. So, why? If flirting is actually an advance without
serious intentions, then why the feeling of betrayal? Is it acceptable? Is flirting really
cheating?
My girlfriend once saw/listened to a voice note I sent to another girl and she flared up. That was just me flirting with another girl, but she didn't wanna understand that, hence she was really really mad. So I believe since ur partner is not right der in ur heart to knw ur actual intentions, it's better u avoid anything that may raise ur partner's eyebrow or suspicions. In my own case, I never meant anything I said on the voice note but she wouldn't believe me. So, Avoid it, else u'll have a whole lot of English to speak in d name if explanations..... Hehehehe
ReplyDeleteYeah, you have a point. Since she has no way of reading your heart, it's best to avoid the grammar lesson
ReplyDeleteD seem to b synonymous
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