EMOTIONAL CONFLICT

There’s no such thing as being torn between two (or more) people. Its either you love and want to be with a person or you don’t. Sure, every now and then, the situation presents its self, where it appears as though you have the same amount of feelings for two (or more) significant figures in your life, like you can’t do without both of them. Well, ofcourse you can’t do without them, they both add so much value to your life. What you can do however, is to love only one of your numerous choices. You have to. If you’re an honest person, then you honestly want to be committed to “only” one person. That you appear to be torn between so many choices is only a subconscious battle in your mind that arises because of a blurred truth.

Short Guys Are Possessive: My Opinion

I have been with my fair share of guys so I know at least a little  thing or two about them, a little enough to draw my own conclusions. More often than not, tall guys whether handsome or not are much less insecure about themselves in relationships compared to shorter guys. The consequence of this is that tall guys therefore do not “guard” their “babies” as intensely as shorter guys even when faced with more socially influential and physically attractive rivals.

ENVYING YOUR FRIENDS---"FRENVY"

You would rarely find a 26 year old lady envying the 25 year old multi-talented Rihanna even though her dream was to be as talented and famous at that age. Rihanna would rather be her role model. However, the same 25 year old would envy Clara, her 22 year old girlfriend who just got married. Rather than be genuinely happy for Clara, you’d fine her desperately looking for reasons why Clara doesn’t deserve to be married and why the marriage would never last longer than a Kim Kardashian marriage. Now, although this certainly does not happen in all cases, I’m trying to bring home a point, and that is,

FORGET ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY, ITS GONNA BE GOOD ENOUGH- JUST GIVE IT A TRY

There are so many times, countless times I’ve doubted myself and what I have to offer. Take for instance, before I started typing this, I spent the last 30 minutes trying to type my experience and all the mishaps that occurred today, but then I was like, what d heck! Who wants to read about my boring annoying day. That, in itself is a form of self doubt, having second, third, fourth and fifth thoughts about whatever ideas you have to offer because you feel its never going to be good enough.